There's not really a perfect method unless you resort to horribly invasive spells that defeat the whole purpose of respecting someone's boundaries.
If there's one thing I learned from Terowyn, it's that you shouldn't bother with people who have a more direct relationship working with you, but I was young and foolish and by the time I'd learned the gravity of how inappropriate that was, the two of us were rather seriously entangled.
But that doesn't apply as much, here.
I didn't exactly have the privilege of waiting for them to make the first move, either. I've been told I have a rather intimidating demeanor even when I'm not exactly trying.
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If there's one thing I learned from Terowyn, it's that you shouldn't bother with people who have a more direct relationship working with you, but I was young and foolish and by the time I'd learned the gravity of how inappropriate that was, the two of us were rather seriously entangled.
But that doesn't apply as much, here.
I didn't exactly have the privilege of waiting for them to make the first move, either. I've been told I have a rather intimidating demeanor even when I'm not exactly trying.